Surrender to ?? 

1….in the union, there is no duality, so question of surrender will not arise 

2….in the duality, one does not know to whom one has to surrender , so surrender cannot not take place 

3…..surrender to happen , one must establish the connection to that entity to whom one intends to surrender ………..connection is not same as union, connection is  just a familiarity, a working relationship, in which communication happens both ways , both knowing each other , and their relationship / protocol

Without that connection, any amount of sending message of surrender will not reach the receiver, and that kind of surrender will not work. It remains a cry in the wilderness

Most prayers remain unanswered, since the connection is not there, and prayer will not reach the receiver 

but receiver is eagerly waiting, ready to answer